This post is pinned to the top of the Blue Borage blog as a statement of intention for how Conversation Cafés are held. It reflects the values, structure, and leadership stance guiding this work as we move into 2026.
Reclaiming Self‑Esteem: Returning to the Truth of Who We Are
Exploring how sibling sexual trauma shapes our sense of worth — and how we rise beyond it. Purpose of our Conversation Café this June: This Conversation Café comes by special request from participants in our Letting Go immersive program. We will be discussing self‑esteem, the quiet centre that trauma often crushes first. Sibling sexual trauma […]
Why Conversation Matters More Than Ever
There are moments in a country’s life when something unsettles us in a way we can’t easily name. The recent events in Bondi have done that for many people here in Australia, not only because of the tragedy itself, but because of what it revealed about how fragile we feel as a society. Long before […]
Letting Go: when naming harm is no longer enough
This reflection explores sibling sexual trauma, the long silence many adult survivors carry, and why I’m curious about what letting go might mean in community, beyond naming what happened.